第五章 研究討論與建議
第六節 研究心得
對於我而言，以此為研究主題是既有吸引力又覺得緊張，因為要面對卡在自 己心中一個很大的結。在這過程中，非常感謝兩位受訪者願意參與研究，以及 在研究過程中我們互相陪伴，一起面對那些過去，那些眼淚，也許有過類似經 驗的我能感同身受。
邊做研究，邊回想起來自己的經驗，我無法說我感激那段過去，但我的確知 道若不是在關係中受虐，我可能無法這麼快意識到我跟他的不可能，當然其中 還包含了兩個家庭價值觀的差異，但這些對當時的我而言，是更隱微難以覺察。
我感謝自己提出的分手，直到今天我沒有後悔過，也許清醒的慢，但我還是醒 了，從一個試圖成為好媳婦、好老婆，但卻不是我自己的框架中醒來。原諒他 也許是困難的，但我不怨恨了，因為我終於能原諒自己，不再為難自己。這段 路很長，很辛苦，感謝身邊所有支持著我的老師，朋友，以及家人。
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附錄一 訪談大綱
（一） 基本資料
1. 請問您願意接受本研究訪談的原因為何
2. 大致描述您目前的生活狀態以及對目前生活滿意程度
（二） 對於親密關係的描述
1. 如果將那段親密關係視為一個故事，你會將它分成幾個章節？
2. 請您大略標示每個章節的起訖時間，並且為這些章節取一個暫定的名字。
（三） 關係中的關鍵事件跟重要人物 1. 請您說說看每個章節的相處樣貌為何？
2. 在每個章節中，有沒有哪些經驗是讓您特別印象深刻的？很開心或很難過的 記憶？
3. 在每個章節中，有沒有哪些人是你覺得很重要的？談談他們怎麼樣重要？
（四） 在關係中的難題
1. 在這段關係中，對您來說有哪些困境跟難題？
2. 這些難題給你什麼樣的想法跟感受？對您造成什麼樣的影響？
3. 您怎麼面對這些難題？用了哪些方法？
4. 當時侯是怎麼走出這段關係？最關鍵的事件或是念頭是怎麼發生的
（五） 個人價值觀
1. 您覺得您的人生中有哪些重要的信念跟價值觀？
2. 這些信念跟價值觀是否有轉變過？跟這段過去的親密關係有關嗎？
3. 經過這段關係，你覺得自己是否有所改變？在哪些部分？
1. 您現在在回顧這段關係時，對於自己的看法是什麼？是否有改變？
2. 您現在在回顧這段關係時，對於對方的看法是什麼？是否有改變？
3. 您現在對於未來的親密關係抱持著哪些規劃或想法？
（七） 其他
1. 對於研究訪談，你有沒有想要說些什麼 2. 對於我，您有沒有想要說什麼？
3. 回顧的過程帶給你什麼樣的感受？