第五章 結論與建議
第三節 研究限制
二、 西文部分
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附錄
附錄一 專家效度名單（依姓氏筆劃排列）
姓名 服務單位
周麗端 老師 國立臺灣師範大學人類發展與家庭學系副教授兼系主任 唐先梅 老師 國立空中大學生活科學系副教授
黃郁婷 老師 中國文化大學生活應用科學系助理教授
黃馨慧 老師 國立臺灣師範大學人類發展與家庭學系副教授 孫頌賢 老師 國立台北教育大學心理與諮商學系助理教授
鄭淑子 老師 實踐大學家庭研究與兒童發展學系副教授兼系主任 謝文宜 老師 實踐大學家庭研究與兒童發展學系副教授
蕭英玲 老師 輔仁大學兒童與家庭學系副教授
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附錄二 預試問卷
未婚男女擇偶信念調查問卷
親愛的同學：您好！
首先感謝您在百忙之中抽空填答這份問卷，本問卷想瞭解您的擇偶信念 與影響您的相關因素，以作為日後婚前教育之參考。本問卷不具名，僅供學 術研究之用，絕對保密，請放心作答。而您寶貴的意見將對於本研究有重大 的幫助，也是本研究的重要依據。感謝您的幫忙，僅此致上萬分謝意！
祝 平安快樂 萬事如意
國立臺灣師範大學人類發展與家庭學系 碩士班研究生：林 容 戎 敬上 指導教授：周 麗 端 博士 中 華 民 國 九 十 八 年 十 月
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第一部份 擇偶信念量表
【填答說明】本量表想了解您個人對於擇偶的看法。
本量表僅測量您對於擇偶的價值信念，無所謂的好壞或對錯，請您依個人真 實的感受作答，並圈選出您的選項。
如：您「不同意」兩人相愛，是結婚唯一的理由，則請圈選②的數字，以此
類推。 非常不同意 不同意 同意 非常同意
1. 我確定未來我和多數的朋友都會選擇結婚。……… 1 2 3 4 2. 若婚前同居，兩人進入婚姻後會較幸福快樂。………… 1 2 3 4 3. 世界上，只有一個真正愛我，且適合和我結婚的人。…… 1 2 3 4 4. 兩人相愛，是結婚最充足的理由。……… 1 2 3 4 5. 若緣分未到，就算再努力也無法遇到結婚的對象。…… 1 2 3 4 6. 兩人的人格特質太相似，彼此的關係會太單調、乏味。… 1 2 3 4 7. 即使他/她並不是十全十美的對象，只要相處得來，仍
是結婚的好對象。……… 1 2 3 4 8. 在考慮和對方結婚前，必須完全把握我們將來的婚姻會
很幸福。……… 1 2 3 4 9. 不能選擇年齡相差三歲、六歲或九歲的結婚對象。…… 1 2 3 4 10. 當我進入婚姻後，我的婚姻會長長久久。……… 1 2 3 4 11. 世界上，不會只有一個能和我共創幸福婚姻的人。…… 1 2 3 4 12. 只要兩人相愛，婚姻便能幸福。……… 1 2 3 4 13. 只要時機成熟，適合的結婚對象遲早會出現。……… 1 2 3 4 14. 結婚的對象和我的人格特質越相似，兩人婚姻關係會越
穩固。……… 1 2 3 4 15. 必須先確信自己能扮演好配偶的角色，才能結婚。…… 1 2 3 4 16. 我會因算命的說八字不合，而考慮放棄結婚。………… 1 2 3 4 17. 在結婚前，我和未來的配偶會是最好的朋友。………… 1 2 3 4 18. 對方必須具有福氣的面相（如：額頭飽滿、鼻子大又有
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非常不同意 不同意 同意 非常同意
肉、眉毛濃密、牙齒整齊等），我才會和他/她結婚。…… 1 2 3 4 19. 婚前同居是檢視兩人婚姻是否會幸福美滿的良好方法。 1 2 3 4 20. 世界上，只有一個合適的人能和我走入婚姻。………… 1 2 3 4 21. 只要彼此相愛，便能克服所有阻撓兩人結婚的障礙。 1 2 3 4 22. 結婚是靠緣分自然而然就會發生的事，不需要付出太多
的努力。……… 1 2 3 4 23. 我會選擇和自己人格特質相反的結婚對象。………… 1 2 3 4 24. 具有相同姓氏，或同宗姓氏的人（如：蕭葉、許柯、周
蘇連、陳姚胡、徐余凃等）不能結婚。……… 1 2 3 4 25. 我的結婚對象必須具備完美的特質、條件。……… 1 2 3 4 26. 要能百分百保證兩人的關係夠穩固、禁得起所有考驗，
才願意和對方結婚。……… 1 2 3 4 27. 有些人對我而言，雖然不是合適的結婚對象，但卻能是
好朋友。……… 1 2 3 4 28. 選擇的配偶必須與我的生肖相合，兩人婚姻才會幸福美
滿。……… 1 2 3 4
《請翻頁繼續作答》
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第二部份 知覺父母對子女的擇偶看法
【填答說明】本量表想了解您知覺到父親、母親對於您選擇伴侶的看法。
請您依個人的真實情況作答，並分別圈選「父親欄」與「母親欄」中適合的 選項。若只有父親或母親，則以同住的父母回答，若都無則不必填答，並請 在無法作答的父親或母親欄下勾選「不適答」。
《請翻頁繼續作答》
父親 母親
非常不同意 不同意 同意 非常同意 不知道 非常不同意 不同意 同意 非常同意 不知道
不適答 不適答
在生活中與父/母直接的溝通互動，或從對他 們間接的觀察中，我覺得父/母對於子女擇偶 的相關議題看法為…
1. 選擇婚配的對象必須避免觸犯傳統民間禁
忌。……… 1 2 3 4 0 1 2 3 4 0 2. 結婚對象的內外在條件應該百分百完美。 1 2 3 4 0 1 2 3 4 0 3. 夫妻共結連理都靠緣份，強求不來。……… 1 2 3 4 0 1 2 3 4 0 4. 若選擇的對象彼此價值觀念差異很大，婚後
會有較多衝突。……… 1 2 3 4 0 1 2 3 4 0 5. 在結婚之前對美滿婚姻有把握的人，才適合
結婚。……… 1 2 3 4 0 1 2 3 4 0 6. 只要用心尋找，便能覓得適合的結婚對象。 1 2 3 4 0 1 2 3 4 0 7. 要求男/女朋友同居的人，都不是結婚的好對
象。……… 1 2 3 4 0 1 2 3 4 0 8. 一個人的婚姻對象，在出生時就已經註定了。 1 2 3 4 0 1 2 3 4 0 9. 能彌補自己人格特質缺點的人，才是結婚的
好對象。……… 1 2 3 4 0 1 2 3 4 0 10. 愛情可以克服婚姻中遭遇到的所有困難。… 1 2 3 4 0 1 2 3 4 0
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第三部份 個人基本資料 1. 您的戶籍地：
2. 您的性別：c 男 d 女
3. 您的出生年月：民國 年 月
4. 您的教育程度：c 國中 d 高中（職） e 專科 f 大學或 技術學院 g 碩士 h 博士 i 其他
5. 您父母的婚姻狀況：c 已婚且同住 d 離婚 e 分居 f 喪 偶 g 其他
6. 您父母親的職業：請依職業分類表，填入父母親目前的職業項目代號
（請單選，若有多項職業，則填入父母親最主要的職業；若無適合職 業項目，請具體寫出）
例如：父親是航空技術員，則填入代號「308」
父親的職業類別： ；母親的職業類別：
7. 請問您是否有戀愛經驗：：c 有 d 無
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5 職業分類表
職業分類 職業項目
（一）民意代表、行政主管、
企業主管及經理人員
101 雇主與總經理；102 主管、校長、民意代表
（二）專業人員 201 大專教師與研究人員；202 中小學（學前特教）教師；203 醫師、
法律專業人員（屬高層專業人員）；204 語文、文物管理、藝術、娛樂、
法律專業人員（屬高層專業人員）；204 語文、文物管理、藝術、娛樂、